Dating an abstinent


31-Dec-2017 23:44

These are the things that worked for us, that may be a solid starting point for you, too.

Is a policy of sexual abstinence until marriage a workable real world posture for 30 to 40 something single women if they wish to form attachments with reasonably high quality male suitors in todays dating and relationship environment? IIRC, the female in question has a son, so it isn't like she is "holding on to her innocence." I surely couldn't do it, but for other people..

Today’s reader asks: Hey Single Black Male first off I like the site keep it up.

To start off I am choosing to be abstinent, I am doing that because I am trying to develop who I am and add more to my character and definition to my life.

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You can check out our SBM Mail series here for past submissions, and you can submit your own inquiries using the Contact Us page.I was reading this thread where a poster was commenting on the issues involved with potentially being asked out on a date, and indicated she held toward a policy of strict abstinence until marriage.



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